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子どもがお手伝いをしたとき、子どもをほめないことが大切なんだ。「いい子だね」とか「えらいぞ」というほめ言葉ではなく、子どもが手伝ってくれたことを感謝して、喜ぶのが「正解」なんだと。子どもにとって親は大きな存在。そんな親から「ありがとう」「助かった」「嬉しかったよ」という気持ちが伝われば、これほど嬉しいことはない。「ほめ言葉」という報酬のためのお手伝いではなく、「役立つこと」の喜びそのものが報酬になるのだ。

親も人の子「子どもの心のコーチング」: わたしが知らないスゴ本は、きっとあなたが読んでいる (via fuyuka)

2011-05-11

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  助かったとか言われんの苦手だったから積極的にお手伝いしなかったなぁ
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